Anonymous:
One of my boobs is bigger than the other (very noticeable) and they sag. Would a guys care because that's the main thing I'm self conscious about and I'm scared guys are gonna reject me for it. Like if you have a girlfriend and her boobs were like that would it bother you? Please help because I really need to get this off my chest, and be 100% honest like DONT sugar coat.

no, it wouldn’t bother me if my girlfriend’s boobs were like that.

if you’re with a guy who’s bothered about that sort of thing, then you probably shouldn’t be with that guy.

-A.H

Anonymous:
(pt2) I was completely honest with her as I can only imagine how disgusted she felt however I DIDNT KNOW he had a gf he told me he was single and pretty much acted like it. Anyways I blocked him and he did the same. But recently he's been trying to get into contact with me... I mean I miss him but he really caused me to put my guard up and sort of hurt me. I enjoyed what we had, it was perfect but I just don't know. Help.

i’m not exactly sure what it is you’re looking for help with, but i assume it could be one of two things.

the first being that you want “permission” or the go ahead to get back together with him as a fwb/fuck buddy.

OR you want to be told that it’s a mistake and you should tell him to go fuck himself.

i’m not gonna do either. your situation is one that a lot of girls often find themselves in, unfortunately, and it can be difficult to know what your next step should be. 

the fact of the matter is, he lied to you, and it was a pretty big lie. if you’re willing to forgive him for that and continue what the two of you had together, then that’s your choice and your choice alone. 

keep in mind, though, that it’s probably going to be very hard for you to be able to trust him again, if you’ll ever be able to.

hope this helps.

-A.H

Anonymous:
My boyfriend and I had sex a couple times before but nothing oral. He really wants a bj but i don't think i'm ready to do that for him... any advice?

if you don’t think you’re ready, then you aren’t ready. you won’t have to question it when you are.

but you can think about why you may not be ready. is it because you’re inexperienced, afraid, or you just don’t want to?

it’s important to consider all options.

-A.H

Anonymous:
im 18 my boyfriend is 22, people keep saying its not going to work because we are at different stages in our lives, i never use to believe them, i recently broke my phone and he let me use his old-ish one but i found pictures of his ex still on there and hes talking to her and shes been saying how he should leave me for her so he can get on with his life and get to where he wants to be..he doesnt reply in a way that make it seem like he still wants to be with me what should i do?

first of all, don’t listen to what other people are saying about your relationship. all that matters is what you think and how you feel about it.

second of all, you should definitely talk to him about how you’ve been feeling lately. if he tells you that it’s all bs and that he wants to be with you, then believe him. it’s important to let him know that you expect honesty as well, though. 

hope this helps.

-A.H