Anonymous:
Why is it such a turn on for guys when the girl they are fucking is really wet?

because it feels good!

and it’s sexy to know how aroused your partner is.

-A.H

Anonymous:
does loosing your virginity like really hurt? are there any ways on not getting the pain? (girl obviously)

it hurts for some women, while for others it doesn’t hurt at all.

it honestly depends on how comfortable you are, and if you’re wet enough, it shouldn’t hurt- and if it does, the pain will be minimal.

-A.H

Anonymous:
First off, love your blog! Now to get to the matter.. My "liquids" arent what they should be, i think. Ive only had sex with one guy and we were both 100% virgins so i know its nothing STD or whatever. But its thick and gooey and white and tastes a sour. I douche myself every day to get rid of it but its back the next day, and if i try to have intercourse without douching myself earlier in the day it feels dry and it actually hurts me. Any ideas?

it’s actually completely normal for your cum to be that consistency and sour-tasting. however, you can fix the taste by incorporating foods like pineapple and celery into your diet. eating these foods regularly will make you taste better!

however, one of the reasons why your cum may be tasting sour is because you’re douching so much. most doctors recommend against douching because it can change the acidity in the vagina as well as some of the bacteria (good and bad) that can be found inside the vagina. 

when you douche, it can cause a change in the bacteria that’s already there, and can cause an overgrowth of bad bacteria, which can lead to yeast infections.

-A.H

Anonymous:
So this isn't exactly a sex question.. But can you give tips on shaving? I'm a girl and I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what but I hate having hair down.. there, but when I shave, it gets itchy and red and at first I even got pimples. (GROSS.) Help?

they aren’t pimples. it’s something known as razor burn.

the best tip i can give is to shave in the direction of the hair growth. if you shave against the hair growth, it will irritate your skin a whole lot more. it’s also important to make sure you soak yourself in warm water in order to soften the hair follicles. 

shaving cream is also a must!

-A.H

Anonymous:
Disclaimer: This is nasty. Have you ever had sex with someone who had hemorrhoids? My girlfriend just told me she has hemorrhoids from not having enough fiber, will I be able to smell anything or will it just be too disgusting to look at? Will the sex be comfortable. I won't do it from the back of course. -nervous-

well, first of all, hemorrhoids only occur in the anal region, and it’s not really all that nasty. you typically won’t be able to see them, and there isn’t usually a smell.

but i would advise against having anal sex with her because it could be painful/uncomfortable for HER. 

also, most people will experience hemorrhoids at least once in their lives.

-A.H

Anonymous:
My boyfriend really wants to cum inside me. I'm on birth control so I don't think I'll get pregnant but I'm still really scared that I might. He says I shouldn't be scared and not to worry, but I still am. What should I do?

first of all, it’s your body, which means that what you choose to do with it is YOUR choice and yours alone.

if you aren’t comfortable with letting your boyfriend finish inside of you, then don’t feel pressured into changing your mind.

if he truly cares about you, he’ll respect your decision.

however, if birth control is being taken correctly, it’s about 96-99% effective, depending on the brand, etc. 

there are women who have been taken birth control as prescribed and have become pregnant anyway, but it’s very rare.

regardless, though, the choice is yours.

-A.H

Anonymous:
When I give my boyfriend oral, I always feel like I'm going to puke when he cums. I haven't yet but the feeling gets stronger and stronger. What do I do?

don’t swallow his cum if you aren’t into it.

you can always have him cum somewhere on your body which is equally as hot! he’ll like it, trust me.

-A.H

Anonymous:
I want to tell my boyfriend that I've been faking my noises during oral sex but I'm afraid to destroy his ego, should I tell him?

yeah, you should tell him.

he’s a big boy, he’ll get over it.

-A.H

Anonymous:
I don't have sex ed in my school except when I was a freshman and they practically told us to wear a condom during sex. But I'm glad that you're more than just a sex blog. I'm glad I know more now because of you. Thank you! :)

no problem! :)

glad i can help!

-A.H

Anonymous:
Is it wrong i get turned on by porn? Im a girl... :s

like this post if you’re a girl who gets turned on by porn

-A.H

Anonymous:
the first time my boyfriend ate me out was shit , it did not feel good at all! But the second time he did it e learned from the first time and omg it was good , but he stopped so quickly when i wanted more! Should I have told him that i wanted him to do it again?

yes, you shoulda!

-A.H

Anonymous:
My boyfriend and I have sex with and without condoms. Sometimes I let him hit in raw because we are both clean, monogamous, and I am on birth control. I still don't let him cum in me though and he usually pulls out. Is this still a bad method even when I'm on birth control? and am I being selfish not letting him cum in me?

the pull out method isn’t exactly effective, although a lot of people would disagree.

there isn’t any conclusive evidence that suggests that it’s safe, so i wouldn’t always count on it. many of people have gotten pregnant while using the pull out method. 

alternatively, a lot of women have gotten pregnant while using birth control and condoms as well, even though it’s less likely.

anyway, what i’m basically saying is that the choice is completely yours and whatever you’re comfortable with.

-A.H

Anonymous:
My boyfriend is really soft when coming to grabbing me and that kind of things , and i like it more aggresive, especially when giving head i want him to grab my hair aggresively but he barely does! why?

maybe he’s afraid of hurting you? or he’s just not into it?

i don’t know why because i don’t know your boyfriend. you need to ask him!

-A.H

Anonymous:
i have been dating my GF for about 4 years now and we are sexually active and i love giving her oral sex but she will never returns the favor, i tried talking to her about it but she had made it clear that she wont do it. should i stop giving her oral? i mean the sex is amazing but i would like her to give me oral sometimes too

i wouldn’t just immediately stop performing oral sex on her, especially because you enjoy it.

instead, try having a conversation with her about it. even though she’s made it clear that she doesn’t want to give you oral sex, there may be an important reason why. you need to first tell her how and why it’s upsetting you and how it’s making you feel.

-A.H

kehnekayl:
So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year now and he has always had a problem with finishing too quickly. Our solution is that we use condoms almost every time, this usually helps- but I can tell he'd rather not use them. Do you have any advice on how to help him last longer without condoms? We've tried a "tap" where he can let me know he's getting close and I can slow down and a few other tricks but nothing seems to be working. I don't think he has ED.

try using a cock ring. it’ll help prolong his erection and should therefore help with him not cumming as quickly.

-A.H