How to Give a Mind-blowing Handjob

we get at least five questions a day asking for tips on how to give a good handjob to your man, so i’ve decided to make a post outlining these various tips and techniques to help you guys out! :)

How to Give a Mind-blowing Handjob:
having the ability to give a good handjob is a skill that is often overlooked. however, it can be an incredibly important way to get your man REALLY turned on before getting to the main course, if done correctly.

1) Start Slowly:
    it’s very important to start off slow. your initial touch is what’s really going to get your man tunred on. and by starting slowly, you’re forcing your man to pay attention to you and to anticipate what’s to come later on. make sure you pay attention to the ways in which you’re stroking his penis, both speed-wise and pressure-wise. pay close attention to his sounds and reactions. if he’s moving his body and making noises, you know you’re doing it right.
2) Lube it Up:
    unlike girls, most guys penises don’t self-lubricate quite enough to create any kind of wetness, which means that you should definitely have some lube on hand to help in the handjob process. the lube will allow your hands to move freely and smoothly up and down his shaft.
3) Using Your Hands:
    since the main ingredients for a handjob are hands + penis, it’s important that you know how to use them. you don’t necessarily have to grip his penis in the “fist” motion. mix things up a bit, try using only a few of your fingers to stroke him, and remember to vary your speed and pressure at all times. don’t be afraid to use both hands while you’re giving him a handjob. you can create various pressures and strokes while using both hands in unison with one another.
4) Mix it Up:
    the penis isn’t the ONLY lead actor during giving your man a handjob. pay close attention to his testicles, corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft, and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of the penis). taking the time to massage these areas of his penis every so often will really heighten his arousal. remember to be gentle and vary your pressure, too!
5) Different Strokes:
    using the same type of stroke throughout the duration of a handjob can get quite boring, so you should definitely take heed to mix things up a bit. while you’re stroking him, try using a twisting motion (be gentle!) while moving up and down. you can also start off with slow, short strokes and gradually turn into long, hard strokes.
6) The Finale:
    pulling all of the above ideas together will definitely create a mindblowing experience for your man, but you should also experiment with your own ideas! don’t be afraid to try new things. the best way for you to know if your man is enjoying the handjob is to pay close attention to his reactions. if he’s enjoying it, he’ll probably be moaning/making noise, and moving his body to the rhythm of your strokes. don’t be afraid to ask him if he’s enjoying himself, either!

one last point i want to make that can be VERY effective in giving your man an amazing handjob is to have him masturbate for you. he may be embarrassed by being asked this and may not want to do it right away, but if you explain to him that you really want to know how to give him a great handjob, i’m sure he’ll open up. if he’s still not completely comfortable with the idea, try blindfolding him. the idea is a bit kinky, but it will make him feel more comfortable if he can’t see you. while he’s masturbating, pay close attention to everything that he does. that way you’ll get some tips and techniques of your own for the next time you two are fooling around.

-A.H

  1. howidreamtodoit reblogged this from s3xlife
  2. myniceview reblogged this from s3xlife
  3. heshertype reblogged this from s3xlife
  4. bisexualbdsm reblogged this from s3xlife
  5. serendipity-lust reblogged this from s3xlife
  6. viking-pies reblogged this from s3xlife
  7. until-tmrw reblogged this from s3xlife

Post Info

  • Notes: 529
  • Posted: 16 June 2011

Share