How to Give a Mind-blowing Blowjob

we’re constantly getting questions in our ask box from women asking for tips and techniques when it comes to pleasuring their man orally. below you’ll find an outlined and detailed guide on how to give your man an amazing blowjob he’ll never forget, and will keep him coming back begging for more.

since a man’s dick represents about 80% of his ego, it’s important to know how to treat him right when it comes to pleasuring him orally. the most important thing about performing oral on your man is enjoying it for yourself. show him that you want nothing more than to pleasure him with your mouth. be passionate about giving him head. knowing that you’re enjoying what you’re doing to him will turn him on even more.

1. Confidence is key:
the most important thing about giving your man a blowjob is to be confident when doing so. you might not be the world’s greatest blowjob giver, but the fact that your man is even getting a blowjob at all will definitely make him happy. you can also try expressing how you feel about giving blowjobs to your man. tell him you feel unsure about it. most guys will be understanding and will also be more than happy to guide you into doing what they like.

2. Before you begin:
make sure that you are both in a comfortable position. if you aren’t comfortable, this can greatly effect the way the blowjob turns out.

3. Once you begin:
you should start off by giving your man a mini-handjob. make sure you’re being slow and gentle when you start because this is what will really increase his arousal, plus he’ll be waiting in anticipation for what’s to come. slowly work him with your hand, then gently kiss, lick, and suck the head of his penis. you can also try putting his entire dick inside your mouth while he’s still soft. most men like the sensation of this.

4. Picking up the pace:
as his penis gets harder, you should stroke him with more pressure while continuing to lick his penis. go up and down his shaft with your tongue, and make sure you keep him wet. literally sucking on his cock will feel better to him rather than just moving your mouth up and down. never let his penis out of your mouth completely, and don’t be afraid to make noise! making noise will only further heighten his arousal, plus it will let him know that you’re enjoying it.

5. Deepthroating
don’t feel bad if you haven’t mastered the ways of deepthroating. it can be very difficult to master, and most guys prefer not having their cock deepthroated, because a girl can do more with it with less in her mouth.

if, however, you REALLY want to know how to deepthroat, you need to learn how to ignore your gag reflex. practice makes perfect. the more you practice deepthroating, the better you will get. just remember that it takes time.

6. Use your hands
most men find it arousing if you play with their balls while performing oral sex on them. just remember to be gentle. some even like having their balls licked and sucked, so don’t be afraid to try this with your man. but again, be gentle! and don’t be afraid to let both of your hands explore his body. run them up and down his chest and stomach, rub his nipples and thighs.

also make sure that you’re working him with your hand while you suck him. this will also further increase his arousal, and you’ll be using all the tools available to give him an amazing blowjob!

7. Eye contact
make sure you keep eye contact while you’re performing oral sex on him. since he’s probably going to be watching your every movement, looking into his eyes while you suck his dick can be a real turn on.

don’t be afraid to talk dirty to him, either! ask him if he’s enjoying what you’re doing, tell him how much you love sucking his cock. be creative!

8. A good cock-sucking technique
want to make him gasp out in pleasure? try starting at the tip of his dick and spiral downwards with your tongue and mouth to the bottom of the shaft. make sure you twist your mouth and head as you go down. and make sure you go all the way down, or as far down as you can.

9. Use your tongue
as i mentioned before, it’s VERY important to keep his penis wet. don’t be afraid to slobber, as unpleasant as this sounds. the flicking, wagging, and using good pressure with your tongue can be very pleasurable. try twirling your tongue around the head one way, then switch and go the opposite way.

another way to really get him going is to use your teeth, but be VERY gentle! never bite a man’s penis. he won’t like it, i can assure you. try grinding your teeth VERY GENTLE on the cap of his penis, and make sure there is a lot of saliva before you try doing this. start by having your teeth clenched and as you go down his penis, slowly open your jaws. flick your tongue as you move downward, and this will create suction against his penis. he’ll love it, trust me. but again, BE GENTLE!

10. The finale: cumming
some women aren’t comfortable with swallowing their man’s cum, and this is very common and also perfectly fine. yes, most men do get turned on if after getting a blowjob, the girl swallows their cum, but there is another way around this. if you don’t like the idea of swallowing a guy’s cum, have him ejaculate on your face/breasts/stomach, or wherever you feel comfortable. this will keep him turned on if not more than he would be by ejaculating in your mouth.

the end!

Uncircumsized dicks:
we also often get questions about giving head to guy’s with an uncircumsized penis. there isn’t THAT much of a difference between giving head to a circumsized penis and giving head to an uncircumsized penis, but there are SOME small differences.

most men who aren’t circumsized are EXTREMELY sensitive when they have their penis exposed by pushing the skin all the way down and holding it down to suck him. this can be painful to some, so make sure you ask him what he prefers. if he prefers it exposed, try this. if he doesn’t, leaving the skin up can make it a tad more difficult to create and maintain good suction, however, it is much easier doing the up and down motion this way.

pressure is important! make sure you’re squeezing with your lips as you move up and down his penis. consistent pressure and evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is what will make him cum, so make sure you’re aware of this! :)


hopefully our ‘how to’ guide will help all of you that have had questions about performing oral sex on your man! let us know if you tried any of our techniques, and how it worked out! :)
thanks for reading!

-A.H

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